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Tommy Hays

The Pleasure Was Mine

Tommy Hays The Pleasure Was Mine
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Prate Marshbanks proposed to his future wife on a muggy July night at Pete's Drive-in back in '52. ""She said yes to me between bites of a slaw burger all-the-way."" A college graduate and daughter of a prominent lawyer, Irene was an unlikely match for Prate, a high school dropout. He lived his married life aware of the question on people's minds: How in the world did a tall, thin, fair-skinned beauty and one of the most respected high school English teachers in all of Greenville County, in all of South Carolina for that matter, wind up married to a short, dark, fat-faced, jug-eared house painter? That their marriage not only survived for fifty years, but flourished, is a source of constant wonder to Prate. Now he faces a new challenge with Irene.

From the author of In The Family Way, a novel the Atlanta Constitution called ""an instant classic"" and the Charlotte Observer praised as ""a lovely, moving book,"" comes a powerful story of hard-earned hope. The Pleasure Was Mine takes place during a critical summer in the life of Prate Marshbanks, when he retires to care for his wife, who is gradually slipping away. To complicate things, Prate's son, Newell, a recently widowed single father, asks Prate to keep nine-year-old Jackson for the summer. Though Prate is irritated by the presence of his moody grandson, during the summer Jackson helps tend his grandmother, and grandfather and grandson form a bond. As Irene's memory fades, Prate, a hardworking man who has kept to himself most of his life, has little choice but to get to know his family.

With elegance and skillful economy of language, Tommy Hays renders an unforgettable character in Prate Marshbanks. The Pleasure Was Mine is at once a quietly wrenching portrayal of grief, a magical and romantic story about the power of love, and an unexpectedly moving take on the resilience of family.

""...Hays beautifully captures a husband's grief as he watches his beloved wife slip into Alzheimer's. ...Colloquial in tone, braced by its narrator's stoic, plainspoken candor, Hays's latest outing feels timely and true. ...An intimate, loving portrait of a dreaded disease's devastating effects.""
- Kirkus Reviews (starred review)
""This beautifully written, bitter-sweet story is quintessentially Southern, but, like the best of Southern fiction, speaks to the heart of the human condition.""
--Walter Edgar, South Carolina Public Radio

""(A) folksy, heartfelt paean to the deep love of a long marriage.""
--Sara Isaac, The Orlando Sentinel

""Hays's elegiac, penetrating description of Prate's marriage frames the landscape of this brilliant novel about love, loss, marriage and family.""
--Publisher's Weekly (starred review)

""Tommy Hays writes beautifully. Better yet, he is heart-true…His subject matter, his sense of the South and Southerners, his ability to reflect on the deep in the ordinary are reminiscent of James Agee's ""A Death in the Family"" and Eudora Welty's ""Delta Wedding.""
--Claudia Smith Brinson, The State (Columbia, SC)

""Most notable of all is the love with which Hays weaves his tale. Many of his characters create art to find affirmation of life in the face of devastating pain. Hays, who has lost a loved one to Alzheimer's himself, has surely done the same with this lovely novel.""
--Frank Reiss, The Atlanta Journal-Constitution

""(C)aptivating, wise and even romantic. … This deceptively simple story aptly reminds us that love and family can endure and carry people through difficult times. …Read this novel; the pleasure will be yours.""
--Linda Brinson, The Winston-Salem Journal

""(T)ranscendent magic""
--Steve Whitton, The Anniston Star

""So many of us have experienced the slow loss of a family member to Alzheimer's. We've yearned for help in preserving the dignity of our afflicted loved one. We've needed a book that tells our story with respect and love. Tommy Hays has written that book for us in The Pleasure Was Mine.""
--D.G. Martin, Bookwatch, UNC-TV

""Prate grapples doggedly with the daily heartaches and frustrations of a caregiver desperately trying to do it all before it's too late…. Prate's widowed son, Newell; solemn young grandson, Jackson; and neighbor, Billie - each of them with their own emptiness to overcome - help transform Prate's life, and the broken group recasts itself into a new whole, molded by Irene's tragedy and their own love and resilience.""
--Janet Pittard, Our State

""(Q)uietly elegant and touching…. (A) moving story of the way that love shifts and grows and finds new ways to express itself, even in loss.""
--Gretchen Holbrook Gerzina, The Book Show, Northeast Public Radio

""(T)he story of family relationships, how they are formed and how they grow, what they mean to us all. In spite of the sadness of the situation, the reader is left with the light of hope and the warmth of love.""
--Reese Danley-Kilgo, The Huntsville Times

""The Pleasure Was Mine serves to remind us that what we often perceive as the end of something can be the beginning of something else…Prate begins his story thinking that his own story is at its end…yet throughout the story we witness him awakening again to life, finding strength in his memories of his earlier life with Irene, discovering an unexpected source of deep affection in his regard for his sad little grandson, and arriving at a better understanding of his son.""
--Jeff Minick, Smoky Mountain News

""Hays is a fantastically gifted writer, one who can portray beauty in the midst of almost unbearable pain…The Pleasure Was Mine is an incredible book that is destined to become a classic.""
--Susan Farrington, The Sanford Herald

The Pleasure Was Mine is a completely engaging, authentic portrayal of a family's encounter with Alzheimer's disease. Beautifully crafted, poignantly funny, and astonishingly insightful, it navigates through a journey that will become increasingly common for our aging population. Tommy Hays probes the meaning of memory and its impact upon our most intimate relationships and leaves us hopeful, inspired, and wiser for the reading.
--Margaret A. Noel, M.D., Director, MemoryCare

""Irene's early changes are described with poignant accuracy, but it is Prate's resilience, steadfast confidence in what he learns through experience and delightful capacity to surprise himself that is the soul of this story. Prate's extraordinary ordinariness allows him to tell an authentic Alzheimer's family story almost lyrically.""
--Lisa P. Gwyther, Bryan Alzheimer's Disease Research Center, Duke University
Medical School

""The Pleasure Was Mine is an experience to be savored, to share with those you love, and to remember.""
--Curtis Edmonds, Bookreporter.com

""The Pleasure Was Mine is enriched by a depth of lightly-worn wisdom and unexpected wit as it surveys the grave problems that can face enduring marriages and can complicate the relations of children with their aging parents....I learned more than most novels tell me; and I was profoundly moved.""-- Reynolds Price

""Tragic and funny, The Pleasure Was Mine proves that Tommy Hays knows his way around the human heart. Here, Prate Marshbanks, his grown son Newell, and his grandson Jackson navigate clearly through their respective storms. But in the end, Prate's one-love Irene may prove to be this family's tr

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